If the reluctant or unwilling partner resists the idea of counseling or backs away from attempts to save the marriage, the other spouse should try to persistently nudge (without being pushy) that person toward doing so.
Or if a hesitant spouse is open to new ideas on saving the marriage, by making a few changes, the constructive spouse must continuously influence the neutral spouse to move in that direction of implementing these new changes or adjustments to make the marriage work.
There are plenty of ways to use the many ways to save a marriage, even with one party to the marriage actively engaged in these ways. One important thing is that the spouse that is going to make this attempt and efforts must go about it in the right way. This is where some marital education and consultation comes into play. The aid of credible, professional counseling and advice that can show the ways to save a marriage must be sought and acted upon. Once all these attempts are tried, and knowledge gained acted upon, there can be no question that the side that wants to save the marriage has the overwhelming advantage. Until my next posting, click here to find out more about saving a marriage.
Saturday, January 26, 2008
Friday, January 25, 2008
How Is It Possible To Save Such A Marriage
To begin with, .500 would be an incredible batting average in baseball. It is pretty good for starters in a marriage also. Yes, one person is not cooperative, but the other is trying to make good use of the ways to save a marriage. That’s half the partnership working constructively. That’s a 50% share in power. This constructive half has just as much a share of power in this marriage as the uncooperative half. That’s .500!
Another reason is that the unwilling spouse may just be tangled in a web of emotions, highlighted by confusion of what to do, and also a lack of conviction to end the marriage. He or she may not really know the course of action to take and as a result remain neutral in their actions toward saving the marriage. All this is going on while the other mate is taking positive, constructive steps in the right direction to win the other party over to the right side.
A look at marital history suggests that the spouse that wants to make the marriage work usually wins out in the end. If you go back years, months, or just weeks, there was a time when these people felt enough about each other to get married. That time can be recaptured.
You may think the odds of a reconciliation are overwhelmingly negative, but don’t. There is sufficient hope to be positive. There will always be ways to repair a marriage in trouble. It doesn’t matter if the marriage is just going through some hard times, (we all do in our lives), or is truly on the brink of collapse, there is that hope that it can work out as long as one of the couples has the will and resolve to do the required fixing.
In my next blog I wiill discuss knowing the right ways of going about saving a marriage. Until then Click here to find out some more information on saving a marriage.
Another reason is that the unwilling spouse may just be tangled in a web of emotions, highlighted by confusion of what to do, and also a lack of conviction to end the marriage. He or she may not really know the course of action to take and as a result remain neutral in their actions toward saving the marriage. All this is going on while the other mate is taking positive, constructive steps in the right direction to win the other party over to the right side.
A look at marital history suggests that the spouse that wants to make the marriage work usually wins out in the end. If you go back years, months, or just weeks, there was a time when these people felt enough about each other to get married. That time can be recaptured.
You may think the odds of a reconciliation are overwhelmingly negative, but don’t. There is sufficient hope to be positive. There will always be ways to repair a marriage in trouble. It doesn’t matter if the marriage is just going through some hard times, (we all do in our lives), or is truly on the brink of collapse, there is that hope that it can work out as long as one of the couples has the will and resolve to do the required fixing.
In my next blog I wiill discuss knowing the right ways of going about saving a marriage. Until then Click here to find out some more information on saving a marriage.
Are There Ways To Save A Marriage When Only One Spouse Is Trying?
Can There Be Ways To Save A Marriage With The Efforts of Just One Spouse
There are many, many ways to save a marriage that exist, most of them carry excess baggage and problems. There is one question that is as serious as all the rest if not the most serious one of all. Can a marriage on the rocks be saved through the efforts of just one person?
Getting right to the heart of it, are there ways to repair a marriage in trouble that has only one spouse putting in the effort. The answer to that question is a surprising yes.
While it seems improbable to think that such a marriage can be saved through the efforts of one, especially where the other has very little desire or no motivation to make it work whatsoever, or even worse wants to end it, it really is not as improbable or unrealistic as one might think.
In my next blog, I will discuss the reasons why such a marriage can be saved. Until then, Click here to find out more about saving a marriage in trouble.
There are many, many ways to save a marriage that exist, most of them carry excess baggage and problems. There is one question that is as serious as all the rest if not the most serious one of all. Can a marriage on the rocks be saved through the efforts of just one person?
Getting right to the heart of it, are there ways to repair a marriage in trouble that has only one spouse putting in the effort. The answer to that question is a surprising yes.
While it seems improbable to think that such a marriage can be saved through the efforts of one, especially where the other has very little desire or no motivation to make it work whatsoever, or even worse wants to end it, it really is not as improbable or unrealistic as one might think.
In my next blog, I will discuss the reasons why such a marriage can be saved. Until then, Click here to find out more about saving a marriage in trouble.
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